5 Lifehacks to Show Her You're the Strong Man She Needs
You know what women love? Hardworking, strong men who have their act together. You know what they don’t love? Men who are self-obsessed, weak-willed and weak in general. How can you be the man that she needs without losing the strength and independence she loves? there are ways to show her you’re the strong man she needs to be with. The fact that women love dominant men is not new news. If you are not the dominant type, don’t be discouraged just yet! Every woman wants to respect her man and what better way to show her you’re not someone to be messed with than by applying one of these life hacks? Whether you’re looking to bag your crush or rekindle that spark in your current relationship, here are 5 easy ways to show her you’re the strong man she needs. Let’s get started!
1) Confidence
What I'm saying is that confidence isn't about being cocky or arrogant. It's about knowing your worth and not letting other people tell you otherwise. It's also about having a sense of humor and not taking everything too seriously.
Confidence comes from within, so if you don't feel it yet, work on yourself until you do. Start by reading self-help books like The Secret, Power of Positive Thinking, Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. Get off social media for a while and start practicing meditation because in reality nobody cares as much as you think they do.
Challenge yourself by doing something outside your comfort zone once in awhile even though you might be scared or anxious because then you'll grow as a person and will be able to tackle life with ease. Finally stop comparing yourself with others because everyone has different goals in life so find someone whose values align with yours and surround yourself with positive influences who support your goals instead of hinder them.
Remember that some things are out of our control but we can always control how we respond which will lead us to more success in life! There are no guarantees in life, so just try your best and take each day one step at a time. Believe in yourself and know that there are five strong lifehacks that you can use today to make sure she respects you.
2) Be calm, but assertive
It's not uncommon for our partners to get frustrated with us. Maybe it was a long day, or you said something that rubbed them the wrong way. Whatever it was, we all have moments where we do things that make our partner upset. It's important that when this happens, you remember this simple rule: don't argue back and give them space to calm down. Here are five life hacks that will show her you're the man she needs.
1) When your partner is upset and you feel like arguing back, pause for a moment before reacting it could be one of those situations where they'll just need time to cool off.
2) Keep an eye on your tone and language during disagreements- if either become disrespectful or aggressive, you might want to stop the conversation until everyone has calmed down.
3) Take control of the situation by telling your partner what specifically bothers you about their behavior instead of lecturing them about how they should act in general.
4) Try responding calmly to their anger by saying You seem really angry right now rather than What's wrong?
5) Give her some space- don't demand explanations from her while she's venting, since this might discourage open communication in the future.
And last but not least, take responsibility for your own actions. If there's something you did that made her upset, apologize sincerely and try to avoid making the same mistake again! It can also help to explain why you did what you did, even if it seems obvious to you.
Remember that your partner doesn't know exactly what goes through your mind at any given moment. For example, maybe you told her I'm sorry after having a conflict over texting too much and she couldn't understand why.
Later on, she found out that you were feeling really anxious because of other stuff going on in your life so you were trying to distract yourself by staying online longer than usual. In hindsight, both of these reasons sound reasonable to her however, neither explanation felt as understandable when spoken aloud amidst the heat of the argument.
Not only does this perspective let her know more about what's going on with you personally it also helps to defuse tension because she feels more understood. Sometimes when we hear someone who loves us say they regret doing something that hurt us, it makes everything else seem less big. The next time your partner gets mad at you, tell her You seem really angry right now and then ask how else you can make it better.
Most people would prefer being asked questions about how to improve rather than being lectured about what went wrong it's often a lot easier for them to see where their behaviors need improvement if given the chance.
3) Be the lion, not the peacock.
If you are a guy in search of a lady, then listen up. Here's how you can show her that you are the man for her: Be strong. Don't chase, let her come to you. Stand up for what's right and don't back down from a challenge. Have faith and believe in yourself.
Take care of your body and mind by eating healthy foods and exercising regularly. And last but not least, be gentle with her heart give it time to heal if it is broken. Women want a man who will be their rock when things get tough and won't give up on them easily even when they push him away or disagree with him at times.
They need a partner who listens to them and respects their opinion, because this proves he has his own mind and knows his own worth. A woman wants someone who doesn't give up on himself or her after one disagreement, as this shows he has resilience as well as emotional maturity.
I know it might sound easy enough just do all these things but we need more than life hacks here, we need real action steps for guys who are ready to change themselves so they can have the type of woman that is good for them waiting in line at the end of their journey! Here are some of my favorite ways to improve oneself in order to find the perfect match:
(1) Find a mentor and ask for help. Guys who struggle with dating often feel like failures, but every successful person needs a mentor. It could be your dad, an uncle, a family friend- whoever is available to help guide you along the way. Asking for help takes humility which makes you attractive
(2) Journal about what bothers you most about being single. Bring this journal with you everywhere you go and write in it when something pops into your head. Then look back at what you wrote days later to see if there are any patterns emerging. Once there are, start working on those areas of your life until they no longer bother you anymore. The feeling of finally getting out of a slump will make everything seem better, trust me!
3) Spend less time online chatting and focus more on going out into the world and meeting people face-to-face instead. You never know what amazing connection may happen while sitting next to someone on the subway or riding home together on the train late at night. Plus, going outside means seeing other people doing exciting things too, which gives you an opportunity to appreciate life again and remind yourself why you deserve to be happy too.
Make sure to talk about anything but romance during these outings though try talking about travel destinations or sports teams. This will force your brain to think positively again and possibly lead to conversation sparks elsewhere down the road as well. Lastly, make sure you aren't settling just because the other person is nice or cute either.
They should meet ALL your criteria before becoming anyone important in your life! There's a saying that goes no one is coming to save you. This means that the only person who can truly save you is YOU. No one else. So, be the strong man she needs and the lion who will keep her safe. Let her know that you will always be there for her and will love her unconditionally.
Tell her this with your actions, not your words, as words can be taken back but actions cannot. If you want to become a stronger man, take the following lifehacks and use them as your blueprint:
(1) Read self-help books about topics you are interested in and work on them daily. Choose books that teach you positive habits, as these will help build confidence in yourself and give you the power to keep moving forward when things are hard.
(2) Talk to friends or family members who are trying to reach their goals and learn what they did to accomplish it. Then, be proactive and put their advice to the test.
(3) Exercise in a variety of ways and track your progress. When you exercise, your body releases natural substances called endorphins that can help you feel happier as well as relieve stress. You'll also notice that when you exercise regularly, it becomes easier to say no to unhealthy food because you don't want to let yourself down by undoing the progress you've already made.
(4) Be open-minded and accepting of others' differences. Most importantly, show respect for them even if they don't believe what you believe or live how you live. Everyone deserves to be treated with kindness and respect just as much as everyone deserves happiness in life!
4) Care for your lady
Listen without judgment. Women want someone who will listen without trying to fix everything, and they especially appreciate when you can show you understand what they are saying. Whether you agree with them or not, your job is just to listen and not judge.
Laugh at her jokes. When a woman makes a joke, laugh along with her as if she just told one of the best jokes ever; even if it isn't that funny. The goal is for her not to feel like she has to be serious all of the time, or worry about looking silly in front of you for making a joke that's not that great. If you really don't get it, ask her to tell you again and make sure to add some laughs in there.
Don't think too much: Men tend to overthink things and have trouble letting go of any insecurity women may have around them (whether it's warranted or not). If you do something wrong, own up to it by apologizing. But then let go and move on don't dwell on anything.
Don't always talk: Yes, ladies love hearing their man talk more than anything else sometimes but they also need their space once in a while too.
Instead of just talking incessantly about yourself or worse yet ranting endlessly on some topic that has nothing to do with your girlfriend, try listening more often instead! Let her speak, ask questions, and make sure you listen attentively so she feels heard. Even if you disagree with what she is saying, nod your head and say I see.
That way it shows that you care enough to hear her out before forming an opinion. It doesn't matter how old she is no matter how long you've been together this advice works every single time because it gets both people talking about their feelings which leads to intimacy and closeness. And for those men who find themselves insecure about whether their lady is attracted to him anymore, don't worry. There are plenty of ways to turn things around!
5) Be engaged in daily struggle.
We all have struggles. We may not be struggling with the same things but we all have something that we are fighting against in our lives. It is important, when you are trying to show a woman you are the strong man she needs, that you show her that you know what it means to struggle and that you will fight for her. One way is by being engaged in daily struggle and striving for success. I am constantly doing this myself and it has made me stronger than ever before.
A simple example of showing her you are the strong man she needs is if she says I'm feeling really discouraged. Your response should be I understand how discouraging this can feel sometimes, I'm here for you.
Don't just say those words either - SHOW her that you care. Put your arm around her or give her a hug to let her know that you care about what she's going through right now. Take the time to listen. Be present in her life and don't forget to compliment her on the good days too.
I want my wife to know she's not alone and that I'll always be there for her when times get tough because they will!
In order to show a woman you are the strong man she needs, you must be willing to take on challenges with her as well as share successes together. Remember, it's not all about you! Go out of your way to help others and make sacrifices so she knows that you will do whatever it takes to make her happy. Spend quality time with her every day and make sure she knows where she stands in your heart.
Say I love you more often and also show her with gestures (holding hands, giving her space) as well as verbally (tell her how beautiful she is). Share some of your interests with her and invite her along. Ask for feedback from time to time and pay attention to the answer this will tell you if she's content or unhappy. Lastly, make sure you touch base with each other at least once a week it doesn't need to be an hour long conversation but rather an update on what has been happening since last chat.
Communication is key when keeping the romance alive in any relationship, including one with yourself!
Just like men are scared women won't find them attractive anymore after their children are born, many women worry about becoming unattractive once they become mothers. They fear they will never again look the same, never fit into the clothes they wore before having kids, and lose their independence.
They believe that this is what motherhood looks like and accepts it without realizing they don't have to change anything about themselves to keep themselves sexy in their own eyes. They just need a little bit of help from a few beauty products and some changes in wardrobe choices to show off their new curves, such as sticking with styles that are form fitting or opting for looser clothing that still flatters your body shape.
I want my wife to know she's still sexy even though I got her pregnant! I'm the strong man she needs and I will show her that. I will support her, protect her, provide for her and most importantly: accept her.
Women are usually emotional beings and carry a lot of weight on their shoulders in terms of responsibility.
This is why it's important to take some time to reflect with them and ask them how they're feeling. By asking questions such as How are you? What are your thoughts? and Do you need any help with anything? you show her that you care about what she's going through.
Conclusion
If you want a woman who will look up to you, trust you, and be open with you then it's time for a change. Remember that she wants someone who can take care of her and give her what she needs. The best way to show her that is by being honest with yourself and recognizing that there's no point in being anything less than your true self.
1) Be honest. If you are not sure about something, come clean with her and don't try to hide it from her. If you lie or cover up what's going on then she won't be able to trust you because she'll know there is more happening behind the scenes than what is coming out of your mouth.
2) Treat her like an equal partner in a relationship. There is nothing attractive about one person who does everything for the other person without ever asking for help themselves. Sure, sometimes it's nice to have things taken care of so you can relax but when both people do things then everyone wins.
3) Let go of any preconceived notions or expectations that were given to you by society, family members, friends, etc. Your relationships should work how YOU want them to work instead of trying to fit into some cookie cutter idea of what love should be according to society's standards.
4) Accept your flaws and imperfections as well as hers because at the end of the day nobody is perfect and flaws make us human which makes us perfect in our own way!
5) Don't expect sex every single night because this only leads to disappointment if it doesn't happen. Sex isn't everything and a healthy relationship should include intimacy outside of just physical contact. It takes two whole people to create an intimate moment between each other even if it's just holding hands, sitting close together or giving compliments, not just one side doing all the giving and the other side doing all the taking. Love shouldn't be about one person getting their needs met while the other has nothing. Love should be about giving to each other unconditionally and expecting nothing in return. Not allowing one person to be dependent on the other and instead making them partners who can rely on each other when they need it.
